Do we sometimes look for the wrong things in a wedding?

Today, I read a wonderful article in an online paper, namely a woman asking an old friend who was in her 70's to be her bridesmaid.

This actually warmed my heart a little. Sometimes we can get swept away with the bells and whistles and actually forget the  important bits. So many people look at how the day will look on video or in photographs and actually forget to do what makes them both happy. Have a look here.. A nice read for a wet evening.